Ask your lover to close their eyes and sit very still. Wait a moment, then use the tip of your forefingers, or your fingernal, to gently trace the outline of their ear. Watch them shiver.

Give you lover an ear job bu lightly flicking or probing their east with your tongue and then gently nibble or suck the earlobes.

Slowly and gently trace your forefinger around the outline of your lover's lips. Then kiss your lover on the incredly sensitive points at corners of their mouth.

Take your lover's right thumb in your mouth and use your lips, teeth and tongue to give it a mini-blow job. Do this to each finger on their left hand the same treatment.

Massage your partner lip. Use the tips of both forefingers to apply gentle, static pressure first along the length of their top[ lip and thenalong their bottom

If you have long fingernails, rest them on his hairline at the top of his neck and then very gently drag them down the length of his neck. The effect is spine-tingling.

There are three hot spots on the neck: the nape, the curve where the neck meets the shoulder and underside of the jaw. Plant a line of featherlight kisses in all three places.

Starting at the hairline, gently trace a line down the back of your lover's neck using just the tip of your tongue. Now blow softly along that same line.

Play hot and cold with your partner's nipples. First, suck them with your warm mouth, then rub them with ice cubes. Now breathe hot air on them before you take them in your mouth again.

Gently pinch your lover's nipple with one hand, then flick the nipple back and forth with the other hand. Ask your lover to say whether they would like you to do this harder or softer.

Trickle warm massage oil into your lover's navel. Dip your forefinger in this little oil well and draw slow sensual circles around the inside and then outside of the navel.

Make love to her navel with your tongue by darting it up and down, from side to side and round and round. At the same time stimulate her clitoris or G-spot with your fingertips.

Invite her to lick or suck your middle fingertip in the way that she would most like you to lick or suck her clitoris. Now apply exactly what you've learned.

Get her to makeher middle and forefingers into scissors and then to use them on either side of the clitoral hood to push her clitoris up and out. Now give her oral sex.

Ask her to gently pull up her pubic hair toward her navel during missionary-position sex. This movement makes her vulva taut as well as exposing her clitoris for maximum stimulation.

Coat your hands in massage oil and rub them all over her buttocks to create a slick surface. Now get her to lie down on her front and thrust your penis against her buttocks.

Exploits the body's sensitivity to temperature by having a hot bath with your lover in which you spray her feet with cold water. Or place a warm washcloth over his penis after orgasm. Have champagne sex. Dribble ice-cool champagne over ther back of your hand onto your lover's genitals. Now lick the champagne off with your tongue.

Practice soul-gazing during sex by looking deep into each other's eyes right up to and during orgasm - you'll feel an amazing sense of connection.

Watch a sexy movie together. Or try looking at some beautiful, sensual art, such as the Kama Sutra.

Fill the bath with hot water and sprinkle rose petals on the top. Now wash and shampoo each other. When you're dry, rub fruit-scented body lotion all over each other's skin.