Make up a fantasy story with your partner. Take it in turns to say a line. Start with "I was sitting opposite hime on a crowded train..." or "I could see her undressing through the window..."

Act on fantasy with your partner. Get the details just right - decorate the bedroom, use props or sex toys, dress up and use role play. Do whatever it takes to make your fantasy come to life.

Give your partner a shopping list for sexy foods including asparagus, figs, oysters, banana and whipped cream. At the end of your shopping list write, "Come back later."

Act out roles during sex. Call him "Sir" and call her "Madam" or "Lady". Just Pretend that she's an innocent virgin or that he's a repressed headmaster in need of liberation.

Ask your partner to put on her tightest jeans and then use your fingers to tickle the inside of her and her crotch. The thicker the fabric of the jeans, the harder you can tickle.

Gather some brushes that have different-textured bristles. Blindfold you lover and then treat them to a sensual feast by gently brushing their skin all over.

Try concious kissing in which you focus one hundred percent on the sensation of kissing - the taste, the feel, the smell of your lover's mouth, lips and tongue. be completely in the mood.

Kiss like teenagers on the street, in the back row of the cinema or in the bedroom. Also, kiss for a long time. Don't think about what happens next - kiss for the pure pleasure of it.

Massage his erect penis with oil and take it into your mouth. Use your teeth to gently graze the skin along the length of his shaft. Ask him to tell you if he'd like it harder or softer.

Rest your upper teeth on the top of the web between your thumb and index finger and your tongue on the bottom. Now pull your hand away. Try the same thing on her inner labia.

Gently draw some of your lover's flesh into your mouth, lighly secure it with your teeth and now just breathe in and out so that your warn breath caresses their skin.

Get right up close to your lover. Both close your eyes. Now inhale deeply. Then exhale really slowly so that your breath very softly tickles and caresses your lover's lips.

Try sensual breahting during sex. The way to do it is to breath in deeply down to the bottom of your lunks. As you do so, imagine that the air is pushing erotic sensationa around your body.

This is the most intimate breathing of all: put your lips against those of your lover to make an airtight seal. Now gently breathe each other's breath.

Try whispering these words in your lover's earusing your lover's using your most seductive voice: wet, hard, tongue. Don't giggle until afterwards.

Call your partner on the telephone when you're apart for the night and whisper instruction into the receiver. Start with "I want you to undo youy belt".

Use the tip of your tongue to lick the crease on the inside of your lover's elbows and the skin in between their fingers. Attention to these rarely-touched areas will give them goose-bumps.

See if you can turn on your lover by licking ice-cream provocatively. Tease them by glancing invitingly as you make flicking and swirling movements with your tongue

Use you front teeth to gently push back the clitoral hood to expose the tip of the clitoris. Suck the clitoris to draw it out. Still sucking, flick it fast from left to right with your tongue.

Tease her by barely penetrating her for the first five strokes of intercouse. Then on the sixth strokes, thrust all way inside her. Do five more shallow strokes and then deep one, and so on.

Put a blindfold on him and caress him. Don't let him enter you until you think he is close to orgasm. Then guide him inside you in such a way that your genitals are the only parts of you touching.