If you have only met once or twice before remind her of your name and mention where you met. Make it clear that you are pleased to see her. Start the conversation by talking about that last meeting and use this as a launch pad to move onto other topics. Remember that nothing is so flattering as someone wanting to know all about you, so ask lots of questions and remember to listen to the answers. Be amusing, woman always go for men that make them laugh. Body language: A lot of advice on body language is too complex for practical application. All you need to do is remember this- look into her eyes! If she returns your gaze it's going well. If she avoids eye contact she's not that into you. Other positive signs are: fiddling with her hair, exposing her neck or making physical contact with you. Drop in the line: Once the conversation is flowing hit her with the line. "Maybe we could go for a drink sometime?". If she says Yes. Result. Be ready to back up your line with a suggestion, be it drinks, lunch, or doing an activity together. Keep it casual. If this initial date goes well you can move onto a dinner date or evening out. Seal the deal by confirming a time and exchanging numbers. If she say No: No harm done, carry on the conversation. Don't take it personally or bear a grudge, it just wasn't meant to be. You never know, your confidence and attitude may make her regret her decision. If she is non committal: This is an initial rejection but she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Carry on the conversation and give her your number. If she changes her mind she will know how to reach you. Move on: Whatever the result be proud of yourself. If she said no don't take it too hard, you are probably just not her type. Its always better to give it a shot and be rejected than spend your life thinking 'what if...?' |
