Think: You may be flattered by the attention but do you want to pursue this? Most likely not. Relationships in the work place are never a good idea. Even though the boost to your ego might be welcome, be clear in your mind that you want this to stop. Otherwise you may end up giving mixed signals. Act fast: As soon as the flirting starts, stamp it out. If you let it slide the flirter will presume you enjoy the dalliance, and any, and we mean any, interaction with you will be seen as encouragement. The straight forward task of passing a stapler will turn into an innuendo fuelled exchange. Humour diffusion: Make a gentle joke of his advances, and let others in on the gag. This shares the situation, making it obvious that you aren't going to put up with any provocative behaviour. The slight embarrassment he publicly receives should be enough to stop him trying it on again. Don't be cruel or make unkind remarks, as this will embitter him and make you appear bitchy. |
