Preparing the room: After you have put clean sheets on the bed, put your cover over it. Then arrange a few cushions on top. Choosing essential oils: To scent the room while seducing your partner, use an oil burner. Put about 6 drops of your chosen oil in the water and light the burner. With strong oils like ylang ylang or rose, 3 drops should be enough. If you do not have an oil burner, improvise by putting the oil into a bowl of warm water next to a radiator or other heat source. Lighting the room with candles: Tea lights create a very subtle atmosphere and when placed in holders are safer than the naked flame. Never forget to check all candles are out before you sleep, and never place them near anything flammable. Accessorise, accessorise...: Long silk scarves serve several purposes. They can be used as blindfolds or ties in sex play, or tied around wardrobe and door handles for decoration. Positioning the mirror: A floor-standing mirror that can be moved around the room adds spice to both the atmosphere and to the play. Sex toys: Sex toys, lubricant and condoms should be kept within easy reach for when you want them. Music: Now you have everything you need to create an oasis of pleasure in your home, one last thing you may want to add is music. |
