Know your enemy: The bra is your enemy. It has got what you want. To defeat this enemy you must do some intelligence gathering. Make sure your hands are warm, cold hands are not sexy. Put your hand under her top. If she is uncomfortable with this, then chillaxe at first base. If you get a positive response, and she's up for it, get an answer to this key question: is it a back-fastening bra, or a front-fastening bra? Why not just ask? Here's why: He says, "Um, excuse me, can you tell me if this is a front fastening or back fastening bra? And can you please assist me in removing it?" Back-fastenings: First see if the bra fastens at the back. Move your hand across her back, and locate her bra strap. Now feel for an 3-5 cm long section of thicker fabric in the centre of the bra strap, or perhaps a tiny gap where the fastenings meet. Don't think, feel.... Bingo! It's a back fastener. Easy! Now you know what you are dealing with. Front-fastenings: It isn't a back fastener? We are probably dealing with a front fastener. These unclip between the cups at the front of the bra. Other types of bra? |
